Do narcissists expect you to come back?

Do narcissists expect you to come back?

As you can see from the above, many narcissists are quite willing to come back for as long as it suits their needs, while remaining oblivious to yours. If you cannot realistically envision a good future together that does not involve the narcissist suddenly becoming different, you might want to stay “discarded.”

Do narcissists ever go back to their exes?

I am often asked, “Will my narcissistic ex come back to me again?” I can reassure you that there is one type of narcissist who almost always returns. I call them “the recyclers.” Recyclers can be men or women. What they have in common is that they tend to cycle through the same set of lovers over and over again.

Do narcissists come back after ghosting?

Do narcissists come back after ghosting you? Not likely, but they might if they want to gain something from it. Now, remember, not everyone who ghosts you has a personality disorder. This tactic can be used by anyone in many circumstances and it’s not a sign of a mental health condition every time.

How do narcissists try to win back?

Narcissists like to isolate their victims from others so they can have complete control; by talking to others, you will hear different opinions, especially from those who truly care about you. Take back your power by educating yourself, connecting with others, and planning a safe exit.

Why are narcissists so mean during discard?

However, narcissists lack empathy. They are unable to recognize another person’s feelings or needs. During a discard, while you may be at your emotional lowest, they appear to move on without a care in the world, and may exhibit absolute disregard for you, whether you’ve been together for weeks or decades.

Why do narcissists keep in touch with exes?

Ramani Durvasula points out, narcissists often have a habit of staying in contact with their exes in a way that is solely about their own needs. “The central motivator for narcissists is validation,” she explains. They constantly need that fresh narcissistic supply, and they kind of know what an ex’s supply is like.”